Finding the ideal partner may be difficult. But what do you do when you are wrong? All our little obsessions lower our self-respect and strength to fight for a better relationship. Ladies, in the name of love, we should expel all demons and obsessions that endanger our love life and to let the positive thinking, self- confidence and more attention in our lives!
1. The obsession of the perfect body
We should give up the absurd obsession to have a perfect body. Analyze all the “defects” you have and discover behind them your true face.
To have greater expectations from yourself is perfect, but you shouldn’t punish your love life because you didn’t lost 42 grams since your last date.
It’s time to stop claiming that you have too small breasts or that your hair will never look great and to start perceiving yourself as you really are: wonderful!
2. The obsession of infidelity
Men are pigs and they cheat! This is what our older friends told us and we should believe, isn’t it? Or maybe it happened to us! Even so, this does not mean that now you should follow the prototype of the jealous girlfriend.
Perhaps his eyes fly from time to time to other women (thinner and taller than you), but this mustn’t make you become hysterical! The jealousy leads to barriers between you and the person you love. And then, you can be jealous and … single.
3. The obsession of nonsense questions
Don’t ask if you don’t want to know the answer! If you know that you’re jealous, then why do you want to know how many girlfriends he had before and if he did or not sex in three?
If you do not want him to ask you if he’s the greatest lover you have ever had, then don’t ask him about the performances of his ex girlfriend.
As you keep your relationship to a safe level, as more you’ll be able to live peacefully.
4. The obsession of endless analysis
If you left him because he told you that he calls you and he didn’t call you, then you risk to be alone for a lifetime.
Men forget, they are careless and never know what to do. If he told you that he forgot to call you (especially if he was watching a football game that night!), then it’s not the case to analyze forever the effects of his actions. He just forgot, that’s all!
Don’t try to find “feminine” explanations to the “male” way of thinking, it really doesn’t work.
5. The obsessions of guessing
You have more chances to guess the lottery numbers than to find out what does he really feels for the girl next door. So don’t try to give your opinion and ask, than to make his life a nightmare by listening to his calls or reading his messages.
And if you have a hunch, then it’s better to listen to your instinct and to act accordingly!