As I sat here and though about the things that women will need to get used to once they’re married I came up with some things women should know before they’re getting married. If this topic interests you then keep on reading this article as I will talk in depth about the things that women need to be aware of and okay with before they get married so that they can avoid the surprises later on.
– He will want you to be the one who cooks most of the time.
This is very truth and I think that every married woman except for those who have chef husbands will agree with this. You will become responsible for things relating to the kitchen the moment that you say “I do.” This shouldn’t’ be that big of a deal as the only thing that will be changing drastically is that you i will now have to make double the food that you made before. Don’t worry about having left over’s like you did before because chances are that your husband wont let them be wasted when he’s up in the middle of the night eating.
– He will have expectations
This is something that you should know before you get married and completely accept. Your husband will expect you to be loyal, trustworthy, honest, clean, attentive, supportive, and all of those things that you expect back. If you are going into a marriage thinking that there is no expectations then you will surely be disappointed. A note that you should make to yourself is to not get upset when he asks for something assuming that you knew you had to give him that, just sit and talk about it with him if you’re not okay with what he expects; surely he will understand and apologize. Do not hold back things that bother you.
– He will leave his dirty dishes, his dirty clothes, his dirty mess everywhere and he doesn’t want you to tell him anything.
This might seem like something that you can deal with while you’re only boyfriend and girlfriend, but the truth is that it will bother you. If you are deep in love though sometimes you’ll find it humorous. Don’t get in a bad mood or act mad after you see his dirty shoes by the door, his dirty clothes in the bathroom floor, or anything like that; tell him to come pick it up if not it will go in the trash. Let him know that cleanliness is something that’s very important and that he has to contribute to also.
– He will almost never do anything just because.
Once you get married the dates will become minimal, the romantic ways will only come around every so often, and you will not be getting presents and flowers all the time. If this is what makes you want to marry your man then don’t even bother. When you get married these things will not come to an end, but they will certainly become rare and almost never just because. If you like being told that you’re appreciated and you like for those showings of appreciation to be sporadic then let him know that.
– He won’t always listen
If you’re looking for someone to talk to and you think that because he’s your husband he will always listen to you you’re wrong. Sometimes there will be a game on tv, he’ll be hearing football on the radio during the last couple of minutes, and sometimes he might have things on his mind also. Don’t always rely on him to listen to you; he should always at least look at you while you’re talking. You will learn to deal with him not listening always. Remember that the not listening should not be more than 4% of the time.