Every relationship will eventually become a little routine, but there are things you can do to spark up your love life once again. No need for expensive dates or diamond earrings, it’s all about using your brain and your heart. A great combination.
Surprise Your Significant Other
No, I’m not telling you to throw them a giant surprise party. I’m simply suggesting that you do something you haven’t done in awhile, or done at all for that matter. It could be cooking dinner for the two of you and eating by candlelight or it could be something simpler like writing a love letter and sticking it on their car so that they’ll see it before they go to work the next day. Little gestures like this show your mate that you care about the romance and that you don’t want the fire to sizzle out.
Buy a Sexy Outfit
Have you been slacking on getting dressed up since the two of you have become so darn comfortable with one another? If so, it’s time to change that. When your mate leasts expects it, you should dress up in something that they haven’t seen you wear in awhile, or go buy something that you know they’d love. It could be a sexy nightgown, a suit, a dress, whatever. Just let them see you the way you were before you began lounging around in your PJ’s all day. If you’re feeling really romantic, you could head out for a night on the town!
Send Your Mate on a Scavenger Hunt
My boyfriend did this for me a few months ago. He wrote little letters all over my bedroom that said things like, “Look in the dresser,” and once I found that note, I’d look in the place he told me to and the next would say, “Now look in your closet.” To get me started, he called me and told me where the first one was. He kept me looking until I found his last letter that told me how much he loved me. It was something different and not only that but he took the time out of his day to send me on a little scavenger hunt to show me how much he cared. It was very romantic.
Write Your Loved One a Letter
Remember when you first began dating, how you would write letters to your crush and pass them to each other in the classroom? Do something similar with your mate but with a twist. Write them a letter telling them how much you like them, what you like about them (whether it be physical, mental, or both), and tell them the things that you want to do with them later. Secretly pass it to them, and walk into the bedroom while they read it. Watch how quickly they’ll be at the door, ready for you to do what you said you wanted to. You better live up to your word!
Read a Book Together
If you’re not an avid reader, this might not be the choice for you, but then again, you never know. Reading a book with your significant other can not only give you two something to talk about, but it also helps you learn more about each other. You’ll talk about what you think of the characters and what’s going on in the book. It may even bring you two closer than you’ve ever been. Plus, it means spending a lot more time together.
These are only a few of the options that you can use to make your love life more exciting. There are many more ideas that you can come up with and it’s best that way because it’s coming from the one person that your mate loves: you.