You see her standing next to her friend and she looks great. She has a perfect body, big beaming eyes, soft skin, long flowing hair and a look that could tame a wild beast. She is so beautiful you’re sure you might have seen her on the cover of Cosmopolitan Magazine or something. She gives you a half smile as you walk by and your knees begin to buckle.
Even though you want to go and talk to her you have fear that she might be above your level in terms of dating. After all you are only an average attractive guy with an average income. She looks like she should be running around with Bill Gates of Donald Trump. You have seen these women on commercials on the television and almost never are they portrayed with an average Joe like you.
You debate in your head whether or not to risk rejection. Because she is so beautiful you are sure that she gets asked out only by wealthy men or ones that look like models themselves. She is playing in an arena that you couldn’t possible even hope to enter let alone win. So each time you see her you stand back in the shadows dreaming and longing.
One of the reasons why we don’t just go for it and ask her out is because we don’t feel worthy. We feel as though some other person is interested in her and that they must be better than they. We forget that people have all types of different attributes that make them worthy and possibly better than anything she could get anyways.
Let me give you an example of a poor schmuck who was trying to make his way out. In a spunky mood he asked out the fairest woman he had already met. He was expecting to get knocked down and rejected because she was known to date only highly influential people. To his shock she said yes and they developed a long lasting relationship. Even more interesting was that she never dated those men because she didn’t trust their motives.
Many pretty women don’t get asked out on dates because they are so pretty. People naturally assume that they wouldn’t be interested, have another man or are too arrogant to even both with someone who looks common. In many cases these woman date much less than the average looking woman.
The next time you see that gorgeous woman standing there you might be surprised that she is looking for a guy like you to talk to her. Swallow your fear, walk up to her and introduce yourself. If she rejects you or expresses no interest in talking to you then walk away keeping in mind that her invisible force field is working. The next time you see her go ahead and say “hi” again. Eventually she will accept you or tell you to “go away”.