Ha, the title sounds so vague. Well let me break it down. If you like the girl, then keep reading. If you don’t like her, by all means, do what you gotta do. These are a few of my experiences.
Oh my goodness, if you think you are going to get somewhere with a girl in the backseat of a MOVING vehicle, get real. That only happens in the movies (hopefully). Yes we were in the backseat, while his sister drove me home. I mean I just told the dude that I DO NOT kiss on the first date. Especially a blind date. What in the world was he thinking? What did he want? He took the step to kiss me right after I said that I didn’t kiss on the first date. Very strange and to this day I cannot understand what he was trying to gain. You can ask, um well did he like me and could care less what I had just expressed to him? Ha ha, I don’t think so. If he liked me (or respected me for that matter), he would not have crossed that line that I WARNED him not to. Okay, did he think he was going to get further then a kiss? Oh yeah right, NOT! With his sister driving down the road? I doubt it. Not to mention, I know this world is crazy (LOL), but what kind of girl am I? Geesh!! Point is, dude, if she doesn’t want to kiss on the first date, don’t do it, especially if someone else is in the vehicle. I mean the guy was okay and I had a slight interest in him, but he blatantly ignored my wishes. Needless to say, I never called him back.
If you meet a lady who is expressing anger toward a boyfriend or fling, do not interfere in her fury with a pick up line. She may fall in love with you and end up marrying you. Then end up being your worst nightmare, who knows. Saying you are Romeo isn’t wise either. I mean she may try to have you prove it for years on end, ha ha. Let her lift you up, but don’t be big headed. If you are wonderful, she will let you know. There is no other turn-off worse to a woman then to listen to Casanova talk about how wonderful he is. The contrast is to accept it when she does. Don’t say ‘oh no I am not’ blah blah. The best response to a compliment is a simple ‘thank you’. Okay, back to the pick up line. It is not good to use a sexual pick up line on a woman who is sexually scorned or disrespected. I mean, saying you are something and her finding out you are something else may be overwhelming to her and cause some major damage.
When you finally ‘hit the jackpot’ dude, the worst thing to do is invite your ex girlfriend in for a cup of coffee. Okay, for heaven’s sake, your new girl is still sleeping in your bed. When she wakes up and walks into your dining room only to find you chit chatting with an ex girlfriend, how do you think she would feel? If she was smart, she would leave and never look back, ha ha. Oh and if you get wrapped up in this sort of mistake, by all means do not call your girlfriend by your X’s name. Yes, try that one on for size, ha ha. Talk about pretty messed up. He didn’t seem to think there was a problem with her visit. I mean I can understand her coming over and knocking or whatever, but to let her in. What in the world was he thinking? Geesh!! Even if it were later in the day.. point is, make sure your girlfriend is awake and dressed. It’s called simple respect.
Do not call your ex wife or ex girlfriend and tell them how bad your girl is treating you, especially right in front of her. This is like self destruction. You are only doing it to yourself. Remember what caused the prior big split up. Most likely it was that BIG mouth of yours, ha ha. Oh and if you have to talk to your ex, don’t spend hours upon hours talking about your ex in laws and how they are all doing. Especially if you have children to talk to. I mean you called to talk to the kids, not your ex. It’s good to be friends, but dude if you want to talk for hours, then why aren’t you with her?
While being passionate, it is like torture to say how wonderful your girl is just because you are the only one that can love what she has. I mean that is manipulation not love, man. Oh my goodness, and why would you do that in the bed? That is so crazy. For example, if her body is a slightly imperfect don’t make her feel ‘good’ by telling her that ‘only I can love you because of your imperfection’. That is an insult, stupid. It is definitely not building her emotional security level, which is essential. For crying out loud, if you have to make such crude statements do not do it in the bed. Point is, I am sure there are men who will love her and tolerate her imperfections without telling her how imperfect she is, um especially while making ‘love’. DUH.
I hope you good men take this for what it’s worth. This is simple advice to help you with your dating (even married) ventures. Don’t have too much fun!!……