Men who use women for sex are called ‘studs’ or ‘player pimps.’ So what about women who manipulate men for financial, psychological, and sexual gain? These women are called man eaters. Man eaters consciously execute a plan to use a man to either manipulate his mind and emotions or use their sexuality to get money from men. In the end, after when she has gotten what she wanted she says, ‘sayonara’ leaving the man baffled and confused.
It sounds cruel and, even cold-hearted, but men do this all the time to women, so it’s time for women to give men a taste of their own medicine. Men are simple beings, give them a beer, an adult magazine, a lap top filled with downloaded porn, a television to watch sports, and a nearby pub, and there you have it, the modern guy.
So as a woman, you want to shake them up, and show them who the boss is when it comes to you. But what does it take to become a man eater? As Nelly Furtado said in her song “Maneater – make you work hard, make you spend hard, make you want all of her love.” It’s not that hard to become a man eater, just follow these simple rules, because as we all know, men are like dogs, throw them a bone, and they come running.
Man eater rule #1: The Power of Positive Flirting
The late Dr. Norman Vincent Peale wrote a book called “The Power of Positive Thinking.” Basically his philosophy was a positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Whatever the mind expects, it finds. (Sassoon, Remez)
So when it comes to positive flirting, I say if you have it, flaunt it. Now ladies, I don’t mean to dress half naked when you go out to meet guys, always think less is more. Showing off a great pair of legs in a skirt with high heels is the way to attract attention from a guy, but make sure not to show your stomach. So a dress is the way to go.
But if you want to show cleavage, then a low cut top with a pair of tight jeans will definitely catch a guy’s attention.
Now that you have your attire, it’s time to bring on the power of positive flirting. Men can tell when you are looking at him, just smile, and make eye contact. Once you have his attention, the best ice breaker is to ask details about what he likes. For example, it sounds funny but ask him “What if questions…” A good one is, “If you were stranded on an island with a beautiful woman, what would you do with her?” His answer will say a lot about himself and then you can assess how to manipulate him. If he answers towards sex, then you know he’s a physical guy. If he says, “I would do all the hunting for all the food and she can cook,” then he’s old-fashioned. If his answer is, “I would create one big giant family and get her pregnant.” Then you know he’s a family-oriented man. And if he says “I don’t know what I would do with a beautiful woman on a deserted island.” Then you know he’s stupid and you can basically manipulate him with your sexuality.
The power of positive flirting doesn’t come from how you look on the outside, but from the confidence you have with words and how you make conversation that leads to a positive feeling that is shared between you and the man is the first step to becoming a man eater. If he smiles and laughs, that means he’s engaged into the conversation and that’s when you can start the man eating process. Remember the secret to the power of positive flirting is to be able to tap into the man’s brain and let the testosterone build in his body where he feels aroused, not by the way you look, but by your body language and conversation skills.
Man eater rule #2: Playing hard to get never felt so good
One of the biggest mistakes I made when I was man eating my last boyfriend was that he actually became my boyfriend. Big faux pas when you’re trying to become a man eater is letting the guy into your life. For the first five months of seeing this guy, I showed him that I did not care about him. When he wanted to see me, I would tell him I was busy and that I would call him when I was free. And when he saw me and he wanted to give me a massage, I told him not to touch me. When you play hard to get that’s when he wants you more. Men always want what they cannot have. This used to confuse me because I thought the whole point was to show the guy that you liked him and he would reciprocate, but I found out that men work in the opposite way. They love the thrill of the chase, so when you say no to dates and tell him next week, he will want you more. Remember what Nelly said, “Make him work hard.” Being tough is sexy for a man. So the more you resist his invitations and advances, the more you have the power and the closer you are to eating him up for what he’s got.
Never, ever, lose sight of your game. Have your strategy, and you have to stay focused on your end goal. If it is money you want, make sure you do not have sex with him. Get the money first, then play hard to get. Part of being a man eater is that you’re like a hustler; you get what you want by any means, that means using your brains first, then your sexuality. One woman told me that when she was in university, she was struggling to get by to pay her rent and bills, so she waited tables at Hooters, and since she was a man eater, she used her gift of gab with her customers and many returned, and every time they came back they tipped her more and more money. She told me she never kissed or dated any of these men. The most she ever did was shake their hand when they were leaving the restaurant at the end of their dinner. Now to me that’s a real man eater, she used her brains first, then the power of positive flirting, and she got what she wanted. She is now a successful business woman working as a project manager for a corporation.
Man eater rule #3: Love them and leave them
I know it’s easy for me to write about how to become a man eater when there isn’t a man sitting in front of me looking at me with bedroom eyes. I know it is hard when emotions get involved, what if you actually start to fall in love with the guy you are man eating?
It’s not good business, but it happens. The best thing is to remind yourself of your game strategy, but if your judgment is clouded because of love, then it’s best to love him and disappear. Ever hear of the saying “Chew him up and then spit him out?”
If you think that your emotions are getting in the way, then it’s time to spit him out. But before you do, make you sure you get what you want. If it’s psychological and emotional manipulation you want to accomplish, then play with his mind. Tell him you love him and you will never leave him and then vanish the next day without a trace. No emails, no phone calls, no text messages, nothing. If it is money and power you want, make sure you hurt him where it counts, by taking a lot of his money and using that money to get ahead in life where you do not need to speak to him again. The fun part is to see how they react when they realize that they have been spit out. Sounds cruel to treat men this way, but remember what Nelly said, “Wish you never ever met her at all.”