Surely most guys know how to find girls online. The trick then, is to learn how to meet some of those girls. That’s what this article is all about. The common idea you will find behind all of the tips below is that of being a decent, reasonably interesting human being. This means, when communicating with girls online, you treat them with respect, and some bit of intelligence on your part. Posting messages such as “what’s up?” generally won’t get you very far. Nor will messages such as “Wow, you’re hot,” do much. Yes, girls like compliments, but if you want to get to know them, try a little patience. Instead of focusing on how they look, perhaps say something about something you already know they like. In short, try to engage them in conversation, rather than going for something that will shock or embarrass them. With all that in mind, below are five surefire tips you can use on the various resources on the net to actually meet some of the girls you find there.
1 – Start a blog. One of the very best ways to meet girls online is to start your own blog. Generally it’s best to use one of the online services, such as Diaryland, or Blogger, because it allows you to easily link back and forth between other users of the service. The reason blogging is one of the best ways to meet girls online is, because it allows you to share some of who you are, and provides a bit of buffer for girls that you may e-mail, post messages to, chat with or communicate in other ways. It gives you some depth and credence, which is something girls find comforting. One more thing, if you start a blog, try to make it represent who you truly are, rather than an attempt to be who you think girls will like. Make it personal. Show your uniqueness, warts and all. Let your guard down and girls will feel for you when they see you’re not afraid to walk your own path.
2 – Visit other blogs. Once you have your own blog up and running, start reading blogs by others, both by males and females. Read what people have to say. Get to know them a bit. And when reading blogs written by girls, don’t just go looking for whoever you think is hottest or sexiest. Look for someone who writes about things that interest you. When you find one, read a lot of the entries then post something in reply. And in that reply, write about something she has written about that touched you, or made you laugh or whatever. You don’t need to impress her on the very first contact, you simply want her to read your post, then perhaps follow the link back to your blog and maybe post something back to you. That’s it. Once you get that far, keep reading her entries and posting comments to her occasionally. Eventually, she’ll either warm up to you and you can begin to engage in more meaningful conversion, or she won’t; if she doesn’t move on to another blogger.
3 – Chat rooms. Clearly chat rooms are a more immediate way to begin talking to girls, but they do have their pitfalls. The first is clearly that you don’t know anything about whoever might be writing other than the words that appear on the screen at the moment you’re reading. Another problem is you don’t really get a feel for how old they might be, which in many cases matters. But, this is not to say you can’t get to know girls through chat rooms. The best way to do so is to visit chat rooms that are about things other than dating or sex or anything else in that vein. Go to casual chat rooms where you might have a common interest with a girl. Lurk for awhile to get a feel for what people are talking about and see if any of the comments pique your interest. If so, respond to them with something about what they have said, rather than some blunt blurt about her directly.Be kind and courteous. Pretend your mother, grandmother and all your other relatives are standing behind you reading your words. Be polite and fun. Girls will like you ever so much more if you treat them with dignity and respect. They’ll likely also find it refreshing after all the other crude remarks they’ve been subjected to.
4 – Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, etc. Let’s face it, it’s not that hard to get a bunch of friends on these sites. But really, how many of them are actually friends. There’s a pretty big problem with these sites in that most of them are stuffed chock full of pictures and blurbs and whatnot but very little actual words that have meaning. Yeah, it might be useful to know every single band a girl likes, or how many friends she has, but it doesn’t really allow for much if any meaningful dialog. But again, it is still possible to actually get to know girls in this way. The first way is of course if she uses the blogging feature. If so, then you’re right where we started on the first tip above. If she doesn’t, she might list other ways to communicate with her. As a general rule, if a girl posts an address on her page, it means she’s open to posting or e-mails. But again, if you chose to write to girl, make sure you have a better reason than you’re lonely, or horny or just really want a girl friend. Only write to her if you’ve found something interesting on her page and have something interesting to say back to her. And as always, be polite, courteous and respectful.
5 – Comment sections. They’re virtually everywhere online; those comment sections on the ends of articles on commercial news sites or personal blogs. Obviously there’s little chance you’ll meet someone famous, but you might be able to communicate with some of the others who have posted comments. Quite often people leave links. If you yourself felt something about what was originally written, then felt something again when reading what someone posted in the comment section, and they’ve left a way to contact them, go ahead and do so. But remember, if you do so, to be polite, respectful. After all, what is the point in meeting a girl online if you she hates you?
These five surefire tips on how to get to know girls online can be used by pretty much anybody who has been finding it difficult to get to know girls online. If this is you, I hope these tips have helped. Good luck.