You see a man across the room, your heart skips a beat, you feel an instant attraction for this man, and you wonder if he could feel the same way about you. Or, maybe you already know a man who you have intense feelings for, you may talk to him regularly, possibly you have even been on a few dates with him. You’re starting to fall in love, but the problem is that you are afraid of scaring him away if he doesn’t feel the same way about you. What can you do in this situation? How can you get that one man to notice you and pay attention to you? How do you make him fall in love with you?
1 Become very attractive. Women are attracted to someone emotionally, men on the other hand are creatures of sight. They must be attracted to you physically at first. Do your best to make yourself look good. Be healthy, and get into shape. Make sure that you take, time to fix your hair, put lotion on your skin, take care of your teeth, shape and paint your nails. Have good hygiene. Make sure your clothes look good on you, and that they are not 2 sizes to small or to big for you. Develop self-confidence, and work on your self-esteem, tell yourself everyday that you are beautiful, smart, and caring. What will ultimately attract a man is your attitude about yourself.
2 Find your faults and fix them. Make a checklist of all the things that you can find about yourself that need to be fixed. These could be bad breath, bad language, poor manners, unpleasant body odor, dishonesty, or excessive gossiping. What you have to do is seek out your faults and fix them so they don’t effect the impression that you are trying to make.
3 Work on your people skills. Getting people to like you is a product of practicing effective people skills. Good people skills include, having a friendly manner, avoiding arguments, making others feel important, never telling others that they are wrong, talking about what interests others and not just yourself, giving sincere compliments, and not criticizing or complaining.
4 Learn how to make small talk. If you want to become a master conversationalist, you must, have something good to say and say it well, speak with appropriate emotions, know what you should not say, focus on listening, give your full attention, offer positive non-verbal feed back and help him get into his flow.
5 Get him to let his guard down. Take the pressure off of the situation by being down-to-earth, and adding a little tasteful humor. Admit some of your minor mistakes in order to make yourself seem more real in the man’s eyes. Some teasing may also entice him to do the same, but again keep it tasteful.
6 Give him a taste of you at your best. Make a good impression on him by showing him the hottie, sweet heart, and the down to earth woman that you are.
7 Position yourself for, and emotional moment. Timing is very important when it comes to making an impression on a man. When your emotions are running high is the time to give him a sample of your best. It is at these moments that memories of all kinds get imprinted deeply into his mind, heart, and soul.
Your love life can be very frustrating and disappointing when you don’t have a clue what cause things to happen. However, dating, romance, and love can be wonderful experiences when you grow into a woman who naturally deserves and attains the dreams that she has. Falling in love is something that happens naturally, but being at your best, will help things along.