We all know that guys are supposed to be the tougher sex, but when it comes to breaking up with a girl, they turn into serious wusses. Of course we all know the right thing would be for them to sit you down and say, “Listen, it is over and this is why.” But no, instead, they use passive aggressive tactics in hopes that you hate them so much that you will pull the plug first. This article will give you some clues that your guy could be taking the coward’s way out.
1 He doesn’t do what he says he will do.
It is true that you usually have to ask a guy about 10 times before they will actually help you put those shelves in the bathroom, that is normal for them. However, when he promises to go with you to a friends get together and then bails at the last minute, or doesn’t call you when he says that he will, there is a problem. When men start losing interest in their partner, they intentionally become really flaky, they just don’t feel like going out of their way for her anymore.
2 He is always asking you, “Are we okay?”
Men hate to talk about their relationships, so if he begins suggesting weekly powwows, take notice. Most men don’t want to break up with you and flat out break your heart, so they will instead try to hit that they aren’t the right guy for you. They may do something like saying they don’t want to be VP someday, and tell you that money is overrated when they know you want someone who will be able to take care of you financially.
3 He makes you look like the bad guy(gal).
Your partner starts constantly choosing his buddies over you and yet calls you the selfish one. This is called deflecting. They will make it seem like you are a rotten girlfriend by telling you that you aren’t giving them enough time or by accusing you of cheating. See how that works? He is hoping that eventually you will be dying to free yourself from his incessant harping.
4 He makes comments about attractive women.
No man is stupid enough to go on about how sensual some random woman is in front of his girlfriend, unless of course, he is trying to be inconsiderate. Once they know it is over, they simply stop censoring themselves. They may comment on someone’s body knowing that it will upset you, the fact is that at this point, they just don’t care.
If your partner is exhibiting any of the above listed behavior, don’t ignore it. It is, time to move on and find someone who is worthy of you and will treat you the way that you deserve to be treated.
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