Meaningful relationships are important to everyone. Three common qualities to consider are: care, respect, and whether or not this person is in any way shape or form truly likeable. They’re not the same.
Care is feeling that humiliating bond with a person. The kind of bond where integrity starts to mean less and less, like protecting soul, masculinity, levels of mystery, the game just don’t seem to mean much anymore. Why? Because it is already known that almost everyone is a precious little creature – the Earthlings!
Respect is more about integrity. Integrity is the unknown. It’s the piece of somebody they present but don’t actually clearly define. Dumb people have a lot of integrity. It’s like they’re trying to hide something. Many times they don’t know what it is. They just refer to it as integrity. It could be something else that they’re trying to hide in a totally other context. Anyway, respect is about acknowledging the unknown in each and every soul, and that respect is administrated through propriety – formal boundaries to segregate pieces of the heart.
People who timelessly care for one another though don’t need to respect each other. What’s their to respect? In an ultimately careful relationship, everything is going to be okay no matter what the mystery really is. Respect in an ultimately careful relationship is just a welcoming surprise.
Liking somebody is a totally different story. Many people are worthy of respect. Many people are careful. However, like is more of a chemistrocable thing. It’s metaphysical, a sixth sense. Something about this person just makes eyes roll. It has everything to do with care, and respect. Although the care may never disipate, respect sometimes does in a likeable relationship. Why? Because people take the chemistry for granted, like it’s no big deal and will be waiting for them around the corner like a sensuous genital fondling from a sexy stranger.
Likeable relationships are the strongest. They absolutely positively almost guarantee care, and the respect is really something that has to be ignored in order to be lost. Respect is usually the most important to people. Why? Who cares? People who are disrespectful will get dealt with by the laws of nature. Everybody commands respect! There is a piece inside everyone that goes unknown, untapped, and must be protected with a formal acknowledgement of some sort. Care is the humiliating bond that makes it all disappear. It, the unknown, goes straight into the melting pot because everybody already knows everything; presumably.
These quality relationships are important for the evolution of society, personal security, and professional efficiency. Understanding the action will help people communicate, keep them from bickering and fighting, competing, racing for ego and pride. So, care for everyone, respect those that show respect, carry that empty pistol, and utilize all 6 senses to find out what is ultimately liked.