You see them everywhere. Girls coming and going. Breezing though life their eyes averted to ward off advances. Girls of all ages, colors and sizes. They comprise pretty much half of everyone out there. But how do you meet them? The list below of the top ten best places to meet girls can show you the way.
1 – Weddings. Women go to weddings, they just do. Sometimes they go alone, sometimes with groups, sometimes with family. But go they do. If you’d like to meet a girl a wedding is your best bet. Or more correctly, the reception. This is where you’ll find women in a social setting. There’s eating and drinking and dancing and lots and lots of talking, which is what you do at a wedding reception if you want to meet a girl.
2 – Shopping. Girls also shop. You know this is true. They go to the mall, the grocery store. They go to Target or Walmart. They shop for shoes and clothes and makeup and for just about anything you can think of. And the beautiful thing about all this shopping is that it’s done in places where you too can go. Granted it’s not as easy to meet a girl who is shopping as it might be at a wedding reception, but it can be done. For example, at the grocery store, you might ask a random single looking girl if she knows how to tell if a melon is ripe. Mmm?
3 – Socials. There are all kinds of socials. Work gatherings, dinner parties, picnics and holiday parties. Get yourself an invite because like wedding receptions, you’ll find a large percentage of the people there will be girls. And a lot of them will be single. Keep your ears open, perhaps one of your male friends will be attending a company picnic. Bingo. Be his guest.
4 – At church. While strictly speaking it’s quite difficult to meet girls while sitting and listening, the thing to understand is that most churches have a lot of activities going on which involve social interaction, one of which might be a church dance, for singles even. Could they make it any easier for you?
5 – At work. Yes, yes, you probably already know all the girls who work in your area. But have you met the ones who work in other departments? Have you met the sisters or daughters of people you already know? Have you gone out after work to happy hour with your co-workers? All these things can very easily lead to meeting girls.
6 – Hobby clubs. There are an awful lot of hobby type clubs out there, just look in the newspaper or online. Bicycling, photography, painting, swimming, hiking, etc. Quite often they are sponsored by the local community center. Sign up for one. Or two, or ten. You’ll meet girls, and maybe find a new hobby too.
7 – Public events. Fireworks on the 4th of July, a local Farmer’s Market, parades, celebrations, etc. All of these things have the same thing in common. They are chock full of girls. It’s not that difficult to strike up a conversation when engaging in a common activity. Give it a shot.
8 – Activities. Roller skating, bowling, washing at the laundry mat. These are all things female people do. Things you too can do. Some are social, some are personal. But either way, if you go often enough, your chances of meeting a girl are pretty darn good.
9 – Online. You know about the chat rooms, the Myspace pages, the twittering and all that. And you probably know about the sites for singles. These things all work, just not nearly as well as the others mentioned above. There is just something better about meeting someone in person, rather than online where you can pretend to be somebody better than you think you are.
10 – Bars/clubs. There’s a reason this one’s at the bottom of the list. While it’s true you can probably meet a girl at a bar or club, the odds of meeting one you’ll like or that will like you are greatly diminished. Bars and clubs are about rating and judging and getting drunk and acting stupid. Not exactly the best way to meet a girl, but of course, if all else fails, be my guest.
This list of the top ten best places to meet girls is provided as a guide to those who for one reason or another are finding it difficult to meet girls. If you are one of these people, I hope this lest helps. Good luck.